Paddy Lambros

Opinion

September 1, 2026

Long hours and stress don’t mean your startup is toxic

The startup world is, if anything, getting less flexible and more gruelling — and we have to all make peace with that

Paddy Lambros

3 min read

Let’s talk about two companies that you will have heard of but I’m not going to name: Company A has a culture that it is famous for and that everybody loves. Company B has a culture that everybody has slammed for ages. 

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Paddy Lambros

Paddy Lambros is cofounder and CEO of Dex

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