Opinion

January 25, 2023

Friends and family funding screws equality in entrepreneurship

Great founder talent gets excluded because they don’t have access to angel funding, writes founder coach Hattie Willis


Hattie Willis

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Many early-stage founders get their first outside capital from “friends and family”. 

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