Sex & love tech
The startups picking up good vibrations
Last updated: 10 Feb 2022
Market 101
For a long time, finding love was seen as more art than science, based on instinct not algorithms and, as such, immune to tech disruption — until Tinder proved otherwise. As one of Apple’s top grossing apps, the dating giant has inspired a new generation of startups putting a fresh spin on swiping for love. Meanwhile others are tackling every facet of romance, from relationship tech such as couples’ therapy apps to sextech, a broad category focused on sexual pleasure that includes anything from audio erotica to sex toys.
But while startups are addressing a huge market, there doesn’t seem to be a playbook for claiming it just yet. Dating apps are wooing niche audiences and doubling down on spontaneous, interactive features, while relationship and sextech startups are trying to escape any perceived stigma by tapping into broader health and wellness trends. It remains to be seen whether this will be enough to conquer the hearts of lovers and investors.
Early stage market map
Key facts
$40bn
projected size of the global sexual wellness market by 20231
£2,000
cost of making a basic Tinder-style hookup app with the classic swiping feature2
250m
number of couples in the global north3
Trends to watch
1. Taking a swipe
→ While sex and love/relationship tech startups are addressing huge markets, they’re increasingly seeing newcomers encroach on their territory.
→ For example, some dating apps are mulling the integration of relationship features, while some mental health apps are jumping on the sexual wellness trend.
2. Sex, money, fame
→ In a market that is both giant and intensely competitive, simply racking up high user numbers is not enough to entice investors.
→ Startups need to prove that they have steady revenue streams to have any hopes of competing with deep-pocketed incumbents, particularly in the dating sector.
3. Honing in on blind spots
→ While a number of startups focused on female pleasure have taken off, there are fewer success stories in men’s sexual wellness, especially around stigmatised issues like premature ejaculation or prostate stimulation.
→ Meanwhile, dating apps need to strike a balancing act between targeting a niche to stand out from the crowd, and being able to amass enough users to reach critical mass.
4. Sex sells — but only if social media allows it
→ The online reach of sextech startups is limited by social media’s ad policies, which restrict campaigns containing adult products or nudity — a serious scaling barrier.
→ Dating apps don’t face these restrictions, but need to be prepared for continuous marketing in a sector where users drop off easily.
Startups tracked by Sifted
Sifted take
In the dating world, startups need to acquire a critical mass of active users while going up against the deep-pocketed incumbents whose success drew challengers to the sector in the first place. By contrast, relationship and sextech startups do not face any market leaders — but many suffer from a lack of visibility and stigmatisation. Startups need to capitalise on the pandemic-induced boom in sex and love app downloads, and develop a playbook to succeed where their predecessors failed.
Rising stars
Developed an audio app focused on female pleasure and wellbeing. Cofounder Andrea Oliver Garcia previously worked as a VC.
Round
Seed
Valuation
€12.5m
Date
2020
Size
€3m
Its app helps both individuals and couples with sexual dysfunction. Users navigate digital sessions focused on specific issues through a range of audio and written material.
Round
Seed
Valuation
€7.2m
Date
2020
Size
€1.2m
Built an “anti-boring” dating app that replaces swiping on static profiles with reactions to a curated display of videos, photos, text and stickers reminiscent of social media stories or TikTok posts.
Round
Seed
Valuation
€15m
Date
2022
Size
€2.5m
Early stage startups to watch
BARE Dating
Dating
€360k
€360k
-
Beducated
Sexual wellness
Sex education
€900k
€500k
€6.2m
Blink
Enterprise Software
€27.4m
€17m
-
Blueheart
Relationship tech
€1.3m
€1.2m
€7.2m
Breeze
Dating
€340k
€200k
€2.4m
Coupleness
Relationship tech
€1.1m
€900k
-
Emjoy
Sexual wellness
Audio erotica
€3.5m
€2.5m
-
Feels
Dating
€3.6m
€2.5m
€15m
Femtasy
Sexual wellness
€1m
€1m
-
iPlaySafe App
Sexual wellness
STI testing
€910k
€1.2m
€2.4m
Jigsaw
Dating
€5m
€3.2m
€9m
Kama
Sexual wellness
€2.7m
€2.7m
-
Killing Kittens Ltd
Dating
€1.8m
€409k
€21.6m
M14 Industries
Dating
€270k
€120k
-
Meet5
Dating
-
€300k
-
Mojo
Sexual wellness
€4.3m
€3.9m
-
MYHIXEL
Sexual wellness
Ejaculation and climax control
€1.6m
€1m
€7.2m
Paired
Relationship tech
€4.4m
€3.5m
-
Pepper
Dating
€790k
€60k
€375k
Pleasy Play
Sexual wellness
Sex toys
€400k
€400k
€1.8m
Puissante
Sexual wellness
Sex toys
-
-
-
Relate
Relationship tech,Dating
€2m
€800k
€6.5m
Serndip
Dating
€580k
€580k
-
Smitten
Dating
€2.6m
€2.4m
€10.2m
So Syncd
Dating
€850k
€850k
-
The Sauce
Dating
€2m
€1.5m
-
Thursday
Dating
€3m
€3m
-
Touchy-Feely Tech
Sexual wellness
Sex toys
-
-
-
UAround messenger - social network
Dating
€450k
€450k
-
Vibio
Sexual wellness
Sex toys
-
-
-
Sources
News articles
1 For these sextech founders, growing a business means pushing past stigma | December 2021 | Maddyness
Talking dirty: the rise of audio erotica | July 2021 | Sifted
3 Can relationship tech create the next Tinder? | March 2021 | Sifted
Good vibrations — men's sexual wellness gets the tech treatment | August 2020 | Sifted
Sextech startups boom in coronavirus pandemic | April 2020 | Sifted
2 So you think you can make a dating app? Here's why it's not so easy. | February 2020 | Sifted
Tech startups want to destigmatize sex | September 2019 | TechCrunch
European investors are finally putting money into sextech startups | June 2019 | Sifted
Dating Startups Aim For Disruption, But Good Ideas Can't Buy Them Love | April 2019 | Crunchbase
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