Opinion

July 31, 2022

Here’s what I learned being a CEO in finance — both as a woman and man

I’m hyper-aware of male privilege — and all the things VCs should be doing to level the playing field. 


Caroline Farberger

Five years ago, the thought of writing an opinion piece on gender dynamics in VC wouldn’t have occurred to me. I was the male CEO of a Swedish insurance company at the top of my career. Diversity was not at the top of my priority list. 

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