Analysis

September 2, 2022

Two raises and a baby: How founders with kids get it done

From closing deals at the zoo to coping with messy distractions, it’s an unconventional life.


Michelle Kennedy, founder of Peanut

Felix Faltin closed a funding round at the Great Ape House in Stuttgart Zoo earlier this summer. He was on a day out with his four-year-old when an investor rang suddenly to finalise some details.

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Amelie was probably the youngest panellist at Bits &amp;amp; Pretzels Healthtech in June.
Amelie was probably the youngest panellist at Bits & Pretzels Healthtech in June
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TravelPerk and Oliva founder Javier Suarez, his wife Elise Medica and two sons Leo and Thiago.
Javier Suarez, his wife Elise Medica and two sons Leo and Thiago
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Inga Svinhufvud Laudiero
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Felix Faltin
Felix Faltin
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Michelle Kennedy, her son Finn and daughter Nola
Michelle Kennedy, her son Finn and daughter Nuala
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Kai Nicol-Schwarz

Kai Nicol-Schwarz was a senior reporter at Sifted. He covered AI and UK tech.

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