We all wanted one. So why isn’t there a founder I know that’s truly happy with their exit?

Opinion
January 22, 2025
Is any founder truly happy with their exit?
You don't have to look far to find an 'exited' founder — but finding a happily exited founder is much harder
4 min read
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James Routledge is an entrepreneur, writer and coach. He is the founder of Sanctus, Author of 'Mental Health at Work' and coach to startup founders who want to scale and enjoy the ride.

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