James Routledge, founder of Sanctus

Opinion

January 22, 2025

Is any founder truly happy with their exit?

You don't have to look far to find an 'exited' founder — but finding a happily exited founder is much harder

James Routledge

4 min read

We all wanted one. So why isn’t there a founder I know that’s truly happy with their exit?

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James Routledge

James Routledge is an entrepreneur, writer and coach. He is the founder of Sanctus, Author of 'Mental Health at Work' and coach to startup founders who want to scale and enjoy the ride.

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