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Opinion

February 7, 2024

Should I quit my job?

Take your time, plan your next move — and never resign on a bad day

Zoe Hewitt

6 min read

"I think I want to quit my job but, without another role to go to, the unknown is scary. What are my options and what advice can you give me on making the leap?"

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Zoe Hewitt

Zoe Hewitt is VP of talent at Sequoia.

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