Opinion

October 1, 2021

How to pitch in a patriarchy

Fundraising tips from a female founder who has been there and done it.


Aisling Byrne

5 min read

Aisling Byrne, Nuw

As a female founder, pitching in a patriarchy is something I think about on a daily basis. The future of my business and our team rests on my ability to navigate this environment. 

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