Gabrielle Sergent, cofounder and CPO at Klaro, and Augustin Celier, partner at Hexa Scale.

Opinion

January 9, 2025

The reality of joining a startup as a founder… four years ‘late’

There’s no playbook for stepping into a cofounder role at a startup you didn’t build

There’s no playbook for stepping into a cofounder role at a startup you didn’t build.

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Gabrielle Sergent

Gabrielle Sergent is the cofounder and CPO at Klaro, which helps low-income employees increase their purchasing power through unclaimed social benefits.

Augustin Celier

Augustin Celier is a partner at Hexa Scale, which helps software companies that don't fit the VC model scale by providing capital and hands-on involvement.

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