"Hi Zoe, I’m in the middle of a hiring process at a fast-rising startup for an engineering role. The product is strong, the team is impressive and the interviews have gone well. But I’m hesitant — not because I’m waiting on another offer. It’s because I’m seriously considering building my own thing. How should I be thinking about this decision?"

Opinion
February 18, 2026
Ask Zoe: Should I join a fast-rising startup, or launch my own?
The questions 'founders-in-waiting' should ask before taking what could be an exceptional role, vs going it alone
5 min read
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Zoe Hewitt is VP of talent at Sequoia.

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