Just over two years ago, I sold the business I started when I was 23.

Opinion
October 11, 2023
I sold my startup for £60m and walked away. Here's what I learned.
It is a first-world problem, but finding the balance between life and wealth and work is something we all need to figure out
6 min read
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Jamie Bolding is the founder of PackChat and former CEO of Jungle Creations.

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