Opinion

February 22, 2023

How to keep the cofounder spark alive

Founding a startup together isn't always an unbreakable bond: just like other relationships, it requires effort from both parties


Jing Ouyang

5 min read

Cofounders of Patchwork Health Anas Nader (left) and Jing Ouyang

No relationship is perfect. They all have their ups and downs, but the most successful and long-lasting are the product of a conscious, mutual effort to keep the spark alive. 

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Jing Ouyang

Jing Ouyang is cofounder and COO of British healthtech Patchwork Health.

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