Opinion

September 25, 2020

Fundraising is not like dating

Fundraising as a first-time founder is really hard. Don't put all your eggs in one investor's basket.


Melinda Elmborg

4 min read

To go out and fundraise as a first-time founder is really freaking hard. 

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