I’ll be honest, 2023 was the hardest year of my life. My startup, Valla, started the year fresh from the loss of a cofounder and in the middle of an apocalyptic fundraising environment.

Opinion
January 10, 2024
2023 was the hardest year of my life. Here’s how I got my startup through it
In 12 months, I brought my startup back from the brink of failure
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Danae Shell is the co-founder and CEO of Valla, the DIY legal platform for consumers.

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