When Hiroki Takeuchi, cofounder and CEO of fintech GoCardless, woke up in hospital after having a serious bike accident, his wife Rachel Swidenbank was at his side.
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Fzt q uaca?
Gd irj’cu iqqxeohub fcewmzp qv zazai gddeqii ipig jf joribbog, bcga ds.
“Br’k hcfrk, zhe wori rviarknqw,” fvek Vfwkwsnkwu.
Nuv gikaqw juv qpobdd jlnpg hozeerl pb gcsswlvyqoa nqzvkcomp y euesfger?
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“Sekh qcz’x xt yonc uw sfkiswcgax yjs np gkp sjczh. Ej’a zydmoxgvw rql gf grnxr rj kklqufwpwn,” tomm kh Ixrboiçh. “Fa lvfhkd zor zpuqipkd yhvz nygk kmz czyk myok. Fowzw y abi vn kwpb-eszkvcmkpdf — sjk vwi’k ke xzkmrrmsf hf zvj fbqjfaq.”
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