JooBee Yeow, a trained systems engineer with a PhD in Leadership Development.

Opinion

September 18, 2023

Founders, at some point you might need to fire your friends 

You should never keep someone because you like them

JooBee Yeow

5 min read

I was recently talking to the CTO of a hyper-growth startup that will remain nameless and I asked them: What keeps you awake at night? 

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JooBee Yeow

JooBee Yeow is a trained systems engineer with a PhD in Leadership Development. She works with founders, CEOs, C-suite leaders and operators to break through growth barriers and accelerate performance. She is creator of the Scaling start-ups blog series and the Learngility Open Source.

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