Opinion

March 3, 2023

Founder therapy is the key to long-term startup success

Running a startup isn't easy — but turning to founder therapy and a support group of peers can help steer your company forward during tough times


Harvinder Power

5 min read

Harvinder Power, cofounder of Motics

Being a founder isn’t easy. It comes with exhaustion, stress and the overwhelming pressure to succeed. And that’s before you factor in startup growing pains or the personal challenges that crop up when you least expect them.

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