Opinion

March 28, 2022

Burned by three cofounders, broke up with a fourth. How not to be me

Cofounders can be your best asset or your worst nightmare. That’s why you need a partner agreement.


The Acure.io team

While much has been written about finding a cofounder, few people ever talk about the delicate trust issues between business partners once you've paired up. That is despite the fact that your team can literally make it…or break it. Between 7% and 14% of startups fail due to disharmony in the team.

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