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April 19, 2021

Have fewer but way better meetings

If anyone knows how to do meetings properly, it's GitLab's head of remote Darren Murph.


Darren Murph

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Anisah Osman Britton

Anisah Osman Britton is VP of startup ecosystem at Sifted, focusing on all things early stage. Follow her on LinkedIn

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