Analysis

July 8, 2024

How to manage a cofounder break-up without killing your company

Three founders share how they parted ways with previous partners

Sadia Nowshin

5 min read

In the early days of building his mental health app Kalda, Daniel Botcherby and his team were under a lot of pressure to meet milestones, with minimal funding — and then, one day, one of his cofounders “just exploded on us”.

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Johannes Roggendorf, founder and CEO of healthcare jobs platform Medwing
Johannes Roggendorf, founder and CEO of Medwing
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Sadia Nowshin

Sadia Nowshin was a reporter at Sifted covering foodtech, biotech and startup life. Follow her on X and LinkedIn

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