Opinion

September 16, 2022

3 lessons from a serial founder

Second-time founder Michelle You shares how she's approaching building her second startup differently, and the lessons you can learn


Michelle You

6 min read

Michelle You

I didn’t want to be a repeat founder. In fact, when I made the decision in 2016 to step down as CPO of my first business, music concert platform Songkick, I had planned to walk away from life as an entrepreneur for good. As exciting as it is to be a founder and watch your idea come alive, it’s also an exhausting experience where both the highs and lows are felt intensely. And that can take its toll. 

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