I didn’t want to be a repeat founder. In fact, when I made the decision in 2016 to step down as CPO of my first business, music concert platform Songkick, I had planned to walk away from life as an entrepreneur for good. As exciting as it is to be a founder and watch your idea come alive, it’s also an exhausting experience where both the highs and lows are felt intensely. And that can take its toll.
Opinion
September 16, 2022
3 lessons from a serial founder
Second-time founder Michelle You shares how she's approaching building her second startup differently, and the lessons you can learn
6 min read
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